I say love the person as they are.  Love the person as they are.  Why are you…? it’s their life! You know, you’ve got your life. Why are you trying to impose like a particular gender on — whether it’s your son or your daughter — your offspring? And they usually say things similar to what people said to me being in an interracial marriage. They say, “Oh well, if they’re going to have a tough time in society,” and “You know, your kids are going to be like not black or not white.” And it’s like our spirit is stronger than other people’s oppression. Our spirit is stronger than other people’s prejudice. People would rather face social difficulties and overcome them than live their entire life in a mental prison.